Rediscovering Harry Belafonte

Look what I saw on Facebook today!

One of my uncles taught us this song when I was a child and I always thought it was so much fun. Over the years I’ve shared about it with friends (though I wouldn’t sing the whole thing, assuming it would be too boring), but I had never actually seen it performed by anyone. So this video with Harry Belafonte and Odetta was a delightful surprise that had me laughing out loud at the end.

I’m in full agreement with some of the comments on YouTube: “Perfect comic timing, absolute perfection from two incredible talents.” And, “If you are ever feeling depressed watch this! Such talent and to see the expressions and chemistry between them is amazing!”

Watching the video also took me back to junior high school, when my parents had Harry Belafonte’s Calypso LP, which I listened to constantly. Most everyone has probably heard The Banana Boat Song (aka Day-O) and Jamaica Farewell from this album.

But my personal favorite was always Man Smart (Woman Smarter). Budding feminist that I was, I really got a kick out of it; although listening to it today, I realize my pre-teen self didn’t fully understand some of the lyrics! 😂

LYRICS
verse
I say let us put man and a woman together
To find out which one is smarter uh
Some say man but I say no
The woman got the man de day should know

verse
And not me but the people they say
That de man are leading de women astray
But I say, that the women of today
Smarter than the man in every way
That’s right, de woman is uh smarter
That’s right, de woman is uh smarter
That’s right de woman is uh smarter, that’s right, that’s right

verse
Ever since the world began
Woman was always teaching man
And I you listen to my bid attentively
I goin’ tell you how she smarter than me

chorus
And not me but the people they say
That de man are leading de women astray
But I say, that the women of today
Smarter than the man in every way

verse
Samson was the strongest man long ago
No one could a beat him, as we all know
Until he clash with Delilah on top of the bed
She told them all the strength was in the hair of his head

chorus
And not me but the people they say
That de man are leading de women astray
But I say, that the women of today
Smarter than the man in every way
That’s right de woman is uh smarter
That’s right de woman is uh smarter
That’s right de woman is uh smarter, that’s right, that’s right

verse
You meet a girl at a pretty dance
Thinking that you would stand a chance
Take her home, thinking she’s alone
Open de door you find her husband home

chorus
And not me but the people they say
That de man are leading de women astray
But I say, that the women of today
Smarter than the man in every way

chorus
That’s right de woman is uh smarter
That’s right de woman is uh smarter
That’s right de woman is uh smarter, that’s right, that’s right

verse
I was treating a girl independently
She was making baby for me
When de baby born and I went to see
Eyes was blue (shit) it was not by me

outro
And not me but the people they say
That de man are leading de women astray
But I say, that the women of today
Smarter than the man in every way
Oh, yes smarter!

Friends since 1968

Had dinner tonight with my friend, Eileen, who I’ve known since junior high school.

I believe we first met in Miss Jewett’s music appreciation class (where I learned that “Mozart” is spelled with only one “t”). We were in many other classes together as well, particularly band (she played French horn).

As I started to write this I realized that we met in 1968. Amazing!

It was a crazy time but we were too young to really comprehend all the big changes that were going on around us. Riots in Berkeley and SF State University were something one saw on the news. The Summer of Love meant T-shirts with hearts and stylized daisies. Oh, and incense purchased on a field trip to San Francisco!

We were young and innocent in a way that really wouldn’t be possible today. We went to school; worried about whether boys would ever like us; and got good grades.

The only way to see a movie was in the theater. Phones stayed at home, connected to the wall by cords. We used encyclopedias for research; checked out books from the library; and wrote everything longhand.

We also thought the whole “drug” thing was greatly exaggerated. After all, we never saw any drugs.

And now — all of a sudden, it seems — we’re discussing whether to go to our 50th high school reunion. How is that even possible? 🤷‍♀️

Loved it then; love it now

I had a completely different topic in mind for today’s blog, but then the TV show we watched tonight ended with the lead characters singing a rendition of “Bridge Over Troubled Water” and I just had to stop and listen to the original.

What an amazing song it is. So powerful.

I still remember discovering Simon & Garfunkel in junior high school. I couldn’t get enough of this song, or “The Boxer,” “Cecilia,” “So Long, Frank Lloyd Wright”, and so many others.

And then they broke up! I remember how distressed I felt, to have just discovered them and then they were gone.

But the music remains, as alive and wonderful as ever.

Best friends forever

The reconnecting continues!

Today I got together with my friend, Eileen, for the first time since before the pandemic. We had a lovely visit over lunch and as we were leaving she raised the question of whether we had met in high school or junior high for the first time.

Well, it was definitely junior high school and we were all of twelve years old!

I particularly recall music appreciation class with Miss Jewett (or was it Jewell?), but we might have also been in Mr. Wang’s math class together. Band for sure — me on flute, Eileen on French horn. And probably P.E. and who knows what else!

I don’t believe we ever did the pinky swear, but after fifty years of friendship, it seems pretty clear we didn’t need it.