Friends since 1968

Had dinner tonight with my friend, Eileen, who I’ve known since junior high school.

I believe we first met in Miss Jewett’s music appreciation class (where I learned that “Mozart” is spelled with only one “t”). We were in many other classes together as well, particularly band (she played French horn).

As I started to write this I realized that we met in 1968. Amazing!

It was a crazy time but we were too young to really comprehend all the big changes that were going on around us. Riots in Berkeley and SF State University were something one saw on the news. The Summer of Love meant T-shirts with hearts and stylized daisies. Oh, and incense purchased on a field trip to San Francisco!

We were young and innocent in a way that really wouldn’t be possible today. We went to school; worried about whether boys would ever like us; and got good grades.

The only way to see a movie was in the theater. Phones stayed at home, connected to the wall by cords. We used encyclopedias for research; checked out books from the library; and wrote everything longhand.

We also thought the whole “drug” thing was greatly exaggerated. After all, we never saw any drugs.

And now — all of a sudden, it seems — we’re discussing whether to go to our 50th high school reunion. How is that even possible? 🤷‍♀️

Best friends forever

The reconnecting continues!

Today I got together with my friend, Eileen, for the first time since before the pandemic. We had a lovely visit over lunch and as we were leaving she raised the question of whether we had met in high school or junior high for the first time.

Well, it was definitely junior high school and we were all of twelve years old!

I particularly recall music appreciation class with Miss Jewett (or was it Jewell?), but we might have also been in Mr. Wang’s math class together. Band for sure — me on flute, Eileen on French horn. And probably P.E. and who knows what else!

I don’t believe we ever did the pinky swear, but after fifty years of friendship, it seems pretty clear we didn’t need it.