What do we think we can control?

Art by Valery Rybakow

This really spoke to me today. Such an important reminder…BE KIND. Not just to others, but also to OURSELVES!

Me: Hey God.

God: Hello, My love.

Me: The world is completely out of control!

God: I know. It’s such an adventure, right? 

Me: No! It’s like being on a runaway train! I need to feel like I am in control of my life. 

God: You want to be in control?  

Me: Yes!  

God: You are living on a spinning wet rock of a planet that resides next to a constantly exploding fireball in the middle of an ever-expanding universe that is filled with mysteries beyond your wildest imagination.  

Me: Um, okay….

God: And on this planet that you are hurtling through the great expanse in — you are coexisting with billions of other people who have free-will and their own experiences that shape their perspectives and beliefs.

Me: Yeah…? 

God: And while all this is going on your soul is residing in a physical body that is such a miracle of delicate engineering that at any given moment could produce its last heartbeat.

Me: Right…

God: What is it about your existence that you think you have any control of?

Me: Um…

God: Come on — you know the answer to this. What can you control?

Me: How kind I am to people?

God: Yep and one other thing.

Me: What’s that?

God: How kind you are to yourself. Aside from that — most of everything else is a bit outside of your design.  

Me: This is a bit terrifying…

God: All great adventures are!

~ john roedel

Mundane tasks of no great import

Then there are days full of mundane tasks, things of no great import. Except that they’re part of helping one’s life to function smoothly.

I can sometimes reach the end of such days and get down on myself for not doing “more” of what’s “important.”

Hence the reminder to be kind to myself. It also helps to remember the need for ebb and flow, for peaks and valleys.

Oh, right! BALANCE.